'He’s told friends I’m "undermining his kid’s name legacy"': 30-year-old new father tells his friend that she is being disrespectful for not re-naming her cat after the couple gave their baby the same name, saying that they "claimed [the name] first"

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    "[Am I wrong] for refusing to rename my cat after my friend’s baby because “he claimed it first”?"

    "He asked me to consider 'rebranding' the cat"
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    So I (29F) have a cat named Milo. He's been with me for four years, he's orange, dramatic, and screams every morning like he pays rent. I love him.
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    My friend Jake (30M) and his wife just had a baby — also named Milo.
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    Cool. Cute name. I congratulated them, sent a gift, and thought nothing of it... until Jake came over last week and heard me say, "Milo, stop licking the socket."
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    He paused and went, "Wait, you still call your cat that?” Me: "...Yes? That's his name."
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    Jake: "Yeah but... we named our son Milo. Isn't that kinda disrespectful now?"
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    I honestly thought he was joking. He was not. He said it would be weird for his kid to grow up knowing my "screeching cat" shares his “identity." I reminded him I've had this cat for years, and it's not like I named him after the baby.
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    Jake: "But now when people hear you talk about Milo, they'll think of my kid." Me: "If they assume I'm telling your kid to get out of the litter box, that's a them problem."
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    He asked me to consider "rebranding" the cat — maybe something like "Milo Jr." or "M-cat." I refused. He's since told mutual friends that I'm “undermining his kid's name legacy" and "refusing to compromise."
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    Some of our friends think it's funny. Others say I could just change it to avoid future drama. But Milo (the cat) knows his name. He ignores it, obviously, because he's a cat — but still.
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    AITA for refusing to change my cat's name even though my friend gave his baby the same one?
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    77x88x88x77 • 11h ago ΝΤΑ Your friend is an idiot.
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    ChobaniBuenzli • 10h ago And his son should be from now own known as Milo Junior.
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    NewStatement5103 11h ago NTA just start telling people that you think it's a little strange that he named his kid after your cat.
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    deedeejayzee • 11h ago Tell your friend that if he doesn't want his kid to have the same name as a cat, he shouldn't have named his kid after a cat. I would stick to telling people that you think it's weird he named his kid after your cat, if he presses
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    Horror-Reveal7618 • 11h ago ΝΤΑ Its on your friend to fix this "problem". He should start calling his kid "Human- Milo" or "Milo-H" to avoid confusion. He should also consider the greatness of the name Milo since he chose it fir his kid. Or was trying to honour your cat?
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    Lifow2589 11h ago My niece and my dog share a name. It's not as deep as your friend thinks it is. And for what it's worth, my niece loves sharing a name with the pup and actively asks to see her when we FaceTime! ΝΤΑ

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